Resolution.
Okay, I've found something to blog about. It hit me last night that a lot of the anxiety and worry in my life comes from my nonresponse to things I avoid or just really don't want to take care of. i.e., I really don't like talking on the phone outside of the quick, "yeah, I'm on my way, see you in a few" or something like that. So, I avoid returning calls. This ends up just making me feel like, "oh, I need to return so-andso's call" all the time. And similarly, I avoid other tasks that I find boring, like writing my Thank You notes from the wedding (which I am finally working on). So there gets to be a lot of stuff like this that I just avoid and inadvertently bring anxiety and stress on myself. Anyhow, part of my phone avoidance is, of course, my family (because it's not you, it's the phone... really) and I haven't called some of my extended family in a long time; though, last night, I found that I felt pretty good after chatting online with my uncle for about an hour. And so, what I've been leading up to is the resolution that I feel much better if I just take care of business and get it off of my back (brilliant, I know). However, what I mean to get at is the slightly more abstract idea that you're more comfortable playing towards resolution rather than trying to stay in your comfort zone. So why is it a comfort zone. I don't know, I'm just trying to blog here. Find your resolution zone and you'll find your comfort zone, but a comfort zone is not meant to relax in.
2 comments:
Your reticence toward phone conversations reminds me of a lady I once knew who would avoid taking and returning calls until there was no other way around it and the situation had reached critical mass. Her name was Kim.
I think that we should be aware of our comfort zones and strive to charge out of them, doing our unpleasant and feared tasks with great gusto.
LOL... I know you have no clue who I am, I am Daniel's cousin. I read your blog periodically because he has a link to it on his... I agree with your 'Resolution' post though... Too many people stay in their 'comfort zone'...
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